October 2000:  This has been another month of just plodding on.  Because we have all been suffering from winter colds over the last couple of months we have been spending more time getting out of the house.  The garden looks a lot better, the house is a little worse for wear, but we are feeling much refreshed.  Here's what has been happening in our homeschool this month.

- Since the weather has been warmer this month the vege garden was started and everything is just bolting away.  Jonathon and Alex have their own gardens, while Grace helped to plant marigolds around the borders.  Jonathon did everything on his own, clearing the space, planting, and now the weeding.  He has written up in his notebook where everything is planted.

- I have done very little teaching with Alex this month, but he has made great progress.  We have only done about another 5 lessons from the book How to teach your child to read in 100 easy lessons, but he has gone from sounding out every word, to just reading the whole word out.   The lesson goes much quicker too, only takes about 5 minutes for reading and then 10 minutes to practice the writing.  He has his own little writing book now.  Each lesson he writes his name on top of the page, then he has two letters to practice from the book (both small and capital versions) and then I add a number for him.

- Jonathon spent two weeks writing a tall tale for Language Arts.  We use the series Learning Language Arts Through Literature (the older edition) which I really like as it tells me exactly what to say.  (This is the subject that I have the most trouble teaching.  I  need all the help I can get.)  Each day he had to do one step.  The first day was just thinking about the story, then the next couple of days are writing ideas down, then paragraphs for each event, editing paragraphs, then adding an introduction, next the conclusion, then finally making a final copy.  It was really good as he only did a little bit each day but he ended up with a good sized story.  (Jonathon finished one page on lined A4 paper, and he doesn't like writing!)  I also typed it out on the computer, leaving room for him to illustrate it, added a cover page and a border.  It looks really good.  We printed it out and put it in his HomeSchool Yearbook.   

- Jonathon also finished up his ABeka maths book and since we were not able to get another one straight away (it's on order but has to come from the US), we found another book to go on with in the meantime.  It's called A+ School Certicate Mathematics by G. Holden.  It's a New Zealand book and it is very user friendly.  Jonathon has really enjoyed the change and he zips through his maths in about half an hour usually.

- I purchased a second copy of The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle.  The first copy was quickly worn out and the pages fell out.  This time I took the book into our library and ask them if they would mind putting in some of their stronger staples.  They were happy to do so.  Hopefully the book will last longer this time. 8:)

- All the kids have enjoyed playing 'The Pretending Game'.  It's great for when they are bored, and it encourages them to think and use their imaginations.  All I have to do is say "Pretend you are...."  Suggestions are cooking tea, vacumming, at the checkout in the supermarket, fixing a car, brushing teeth/hair, and of course pretending to sleep is a really good one.  8:)

November 2000 Spring has finally arrived!  We're all over our winter colds so we have been out and about a little more this month.  We also announced to our family and friends that we will be blessed with another little one in April!  Again the midwife has been patiently answering all the children's medical questions - extra science lessons.  8:)

- November is a wind-up month for us.  Time to finish books and projects that we want done for the year.  It's also a time for us to order new books for the coming year which means Mum and Dad spend a lot of time reviewing what we would like to teach and what materials we need.   Or rather, Mum looks at all the catalogs and writes out the wish list, while Dad approves it. 8:)  

-Already the children have been getting excited over Christmas coming!  I've been working out what we will be doing homeschooling wise over December.  We usually cut back all work apart from the basics - Bible, spelling, and maths.  Language Arts is done with our other projects like the HomeSchool Yearbooks and writing Christmas Cards.  I wrote out a Christmas Countdown Calendar so the children would have something to do everyday until Christmas, besides the little chocolate calendars they have.

- A homeschooling friend had some school desks  (ones with the lid that flips up and has storage space underneath) with matching chairs for sale.  We decided to buy them thinking they could go in the boy's bedroom or someplace.  In the end we put them in a corner of the kitchen and they have worked out really well.  Jonathon can sit in the corner and he doesn't get distracted so much by the little ones, or watching the computer. Even Alex (4 1/2 yo) loves having his own 'work' place.  I was a bit worried about being 'schoolish', but the desks have made an improvement on the children's work.  

- At the start of the month we attended the Masterton Medival Festival.  We had a great day out, spending much longer there than what we had intended.  They had set up a Castle scene, and had people in full costumes, including knights with full armour, well-to-do ladies and poor wenches.  Among the attractions to watch was battle scenes, joustling and a stage show.  What a fun learning experience!  We were thrilled to hear that because this first year was a success, that they will be repeating it again next year, just in time for our indepth look at the Middle Ages with the Greenleaf guides.

- I've designated the weekends as my bulk reading times.  During the week I'm reading through the Bible at a fairly fast pace so that I will finish it before this baby arrives, but it means I have little time to read anything else.  So in the weekends I'm reading the other books that I've had for a while and have not had time to read.  At the moment I've just begun Sally Clarkson's book "Seasons of a Mother's Heart".   Here's a favourite paragraph from Chapter 1.

"As I have sought the input of seasoned homeschooling mothers on this issue, their response has been consistent.  The only way to make it in this homeschooling life is to reach for God instead of reaching for happiness.   Trying harder to be happy or content will not make you happy and content; trying harder to rest in God and depend upon his grace will.  It is a spiritual issue, not a practical one.  Contentedness will not come from being more organized, sleeping longer, being a better wife, having a better home, using better materials, having more time to yourself, or whatever it is you think might help.  Contentedness is learned in the process of daily accepting life as God gives it to you, and adjusting your expectations to life's limitations."

I'm so pleased that I was reading the first chapter on contentedness while going through all those homeschool catalogs.  8:)  See you next month!

December 2000

Whew, it's been a busy month!  

- We have just about finished this years homeschool yearbooks.  We only have to get another set of film developed, write a piece about each photo and put them into the books.  It has been a much easier job this year as I've been doing quite a bit of the computer.  Jonathon's narrations and stories were typed out on the computer as we went along, printed out and put into the books.  Then I just had to look at our books like ABeka Science and Maths, and Greenleaf guides, and typed out what we had covered for each subject.  Jonathon spent a couple of days writing out some of the books he has read, quite a list!  Both boys enjoyed doing their favourite's page again this year.  After all their hard work they got out previous yearbooks to have a look.  We purchased a digital camera this month and as soon as I can figure out how to put the pics on the web I'll be able to show you how our yearbooks look.  8:)

- You may remember that I wrote in July about the  game Tangrams that I had downloaded off the web while we were studying China.  I recently came across the site again and I wanted to pass on the link to you.  Six months later my children still enjoy playing it! 

- We stopped doing  LLATL this month, taking a break for Christmas.  Of course we didn't stop doing Language Arts, there was plenty to do!  The children were kept busy writing out Christmas cards, letters to family, their yearbooks, and Jonathon's copywork was from Luke 1 and 2.

- When I was typing up what we had learnt in history this year for our yearbooks, I decided to ask Jonathon to narrate what he had learnt about Ancient Greece.  After an hour of him talking and me typing, he decided he had done enough!  We were very impressed with how much he had remembered.  I must remember to type them down more often.

- I have begun reading Volume 6 - A philosophy of Education by Charlotte Mason.  Did you realise that this was online?   I printed out Vol 6 and hope to get it comb bound soon.  Even though I have read For the Children's Sake and The Charlotte Mason Companion, I am finding nuggets of wisdom everywhere!    Of special interest to me since I have an ADHD child is what she writes on attention.  Here are a few snippets from Chapter 4 - Authority and Docility.

"Another misapprehension which makes for disorder is our way of regarding attention.  We believe that it is to be cultivated, nursed, coddled, wooed by persuasion, by dramatic presentation, by picutes and illustrative objects: in fact, the teacher, the success of whose work depends upon his 'personality,' is an actor of no mean power whose performance would adorn any stage.  Attention, we know, is not a 'faculty' nor a definable power of mind but is the ability to turn on every such power, to concentrate, as we say.  We throw away labour in attempting to produce or to train this necessary function.  There it is in every child in full measure, a very Niagara of force, ready to be turned on in obedience to the child's own authority and capable of infinite resistance to authority imposed from without.  Our part is to regard attention, too, as an appetite and to feed it with the best we have in books and in all knowledge. ..... We must put into their hands the sources which we must needs use for ourselves, the best books of the best writers."

"All school work should be conducted in such a manner that children are aware of the responsibilty of learning; it is their business to know that which has been taught.  To this end the subject matter should not be repeated.  We ourselves do not attend to the matters in our daily paper which we know we shall meet with again in a weekly review, nor to that if there is a monthly review in prospect; these repeated aids result in our being persons of wandering attention and feeble memory.  To allow repetition of a lesson is to shift the responsibility for it from the shoulders of the pupil to those of the teacher who says, in effect, - "I'll see that you know it," so his pupils make no effort of attention.  Thus the same stale stuff is repeated again and again and the children get bored and restive, reading for pranks by way of a change."

Plenty of food for thought!  I'm not sure that it would be wasting labour to train the attention for a child that already has poor attention.  There needs to be a focus on training this child to concentrate, but I also agree with Charlotte that it is the responsiblity of the parent/teacher, not the child.  If I keep repeating what I say over and over to the children, but not taking action when they don't do what I say, then I am responsible for their behaviour.  I am training them not to pay attention to what I say.  One thing I have learnt with ADHD children is that you have to be very consistent to say what you mean, and show that you mean what you say.

I would encourage all parents to read Charlotte's work.  There is so much more than teaching academic knowledge! 

 

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