To get married during the Regency period you needed either to have a licence, or the reading of the Banns to
be legally married. There were three ways of doing this;
1 - Banns--read on 3 consecutive Sundays or Holy Days during Divine Service,
immediately before the Offertory.
Any minor needed to provide proof of parent's or guardian's consent. At least one of the marrying couple
had to be resident in the parish which they wished to be married in; the banns of the other party were read in
his/her parish of residence, and a certificate provided from the clergyman
stating it was properly done. Banns were good for 3 months. The wedding
had to take place in the church between 8 am and noon.
Wording:
"I publish the Banns of marriage between Groom's Name of--his local
parish--and Bride's Name of--her local parish. If any of you know cause or
just impediment why these two persons should not be joined together in Holy
matrimony, ye are to declare it. This is the first [second, third] time of
asking."
If persons marrying came from separate parishes, the Banns were asked in
both. The curate of one parish could not solemise Matrimony without a
certificate from the curate of the other stating the Banns had been "thrice
asked".
2 - Common/Ordinary Licence -
This could be btained from any bishop or archbishop and meant the Banns need not be read - and so
there was not the delay of two weeks. The same provisions as above applied
for minors. A sworn statement was given that there was no impediment
[parties were not related to one another in the prohibited degrees, proof of
deceased spouse given]. The marriage was required to take place in church
or chapel where one party has already lived for 4 weeks. It was also good for 3
months from date of issue. Cost of licence: 10 shillings.
3 - Special Licence -
Obtained from Doctors Commons in London, from the Archbishop of Canterbury or
his representative. The difference between this and the Ordinary licence was that it granted the right
of the couple to marry at any convenient time or
place. All other requirements were the same. Names of both parties were given
at the time of the application. Cost: In 1808 a Stamp Duty was imposed on
the actual paper, vellum or parchment the licence was printed upon, of £4.
In 1815, the duty increased to £5.
The prohibition on marrying your brother's wife comes from an Old Testament
text: "If a man shall take his brother's wife, it is an impurity: he hath
uncovered his brother's nakedness; they shall be childless." (Leviticus
xx,21.) Now you might well notice that this could easily mean don't take
your brother's wife _while he is alive_, but the medieval church interpreted
it to mean that people could not marry their deceased spouse's sibling, at
all and because the church did grant dispensations from the prohibition.
There was no outright civil ban on these marriages in England although they
were certainly discouraged, until the The Marriage Act of 1835. Up until
this date these marriages were considered voidable (meaning either party
could use the relationship as a reason to annul the marriage - or indeed anyone else might do so if they felt so moved) but were not
void.
The case of Charles Austen, the younger brother of Jane Austen is an example of this. In 1814 his first
wife, Frances Palmer, died in childbirth. Being a naval officer, he left
his surviving three daughters in the care of his wife's older sister
Harriet. In 1817, Charles was returned to shore for several years (he did
not get another ship until 1826.) In 1820, he and Harriet were married, and
remained married for 32 years, until his death in 1852; Harriet died in
1869. They had 4 children, three sons and a daughter. After his marriage,
Charles continued to rise in the navy without prejudice because of his marriage; in fact he captained several different ships,
was named a Companion of the Bath in 1840, became a rear-admiral in 1846,
and was appointed Commander-in-Chief of the East India and China Station in
1850. By then, of course, his marriage with Harriet had been
officially sanctioned by the 1835 Marriage Act which closed the possibility of it being challenged under Canonical Law and made void. While it doesn't appear
either her father or Charles' father opposed the marriage, it is suggested
that the couple did go to France to be married.
Lady Holland perhaps best illustrates the situation commenting the Marquis of Worcester's marriage to
his wife's half sister, Emily Frances Smith. They had to marry in Europe, but this was no guarantee that their
marriage would not be voided. "The Duchess of Beaufort (Lord Worcester's mother) has had an amiable interview wtih Lord Worcester, &
invited Lady Worcester to England. Her religious scruples have taken a turn; but the marriage is
still libale to be dissolved any day by an ill-natured person." (from "Lady Holland's Lettters To Her Son". Edited by Lord Ilchester. John Murray, London, 1946. Page 26, April 21, 1824.)
There was not universal supprt for these marriages though, Maria Edgeworth's father was forced to wait for sometime to
marry his deceased wife's sister in late eighteenth century Ireland while a clergyman was found who would marry them.
In fact there are instances of these marriages being voided. This is from the March 1810 issue of La Belle Assemblee,
under Incidents Occurring In and Near London pp 152-155:
"Feb. 27. This day a cause of nullity of marriage brought by Charlotte
Aughtie, widow, late wife of William Aughtie, of the parish of St.
Mary-le-bow, London by reason of affinity, was decided in the Arches
Court. It appeared by the evidence produced, that Gabriel Aughtie, the
former husband of Charlotte Aughtie, and William Aughtie (the party now
proceeded against) were own brothers. It also appeared by the former
marriage, there were issue ten children, five of whom were still living,
and by the latter marriage one child. These facts together with other
necessary facts, being satisfactorily proved, the court observed, it had
no difficulty whatever in pronouncing this to have been an unlawful
marriage and thereby pronounced it accordingly."
By the 1830's, eminent people who had contracted these marriages and feared
they might later be declared void, sought to have their position stabilized
and a bill was introduced by Lord Lyndhurst to regularize them. The bill
that was passed in 1835 enacted that "all marriages which shall hereafter be
celebrated between persons within the prohibited degrees of consanguinity or
affinity shall be absolutely null and void to all intents and purposes
whatsoever." At the same time the act did legalize all marriages within the
prohibited degrees of affinity (i.e. with deceased wife's sister) that had
been celebrated before August 31, 1835. That meant that all those eminent
people (and their children) were safe.
It was only any later marriages, after the date of the marriage act which
were void. Beginning in the 1860's, bills were introduced in Parliament just
about annually to allow marriage with deceased wife's sister; it finally
passed in 1907. The issue prompted the classic line from Gilbert and
Sullivan's operetta 'Iolanthe' - "We will prick that annual blister,
marriage to deceased wife's sister". In 1907 they finally managed to repeal at least half of it. The Deceased Wife's Sister's Marriage act of 28 August that year
made it possible to marry one's sister-in-law. Yet it wasn't until 1921 that the Deceased Brother's Widow's Marriage Act was passed
which made marriage to a brother-in-law legal.
(Reference "The Dictionary of Dates, Everyman's Library, JM Dent and Sons. 1940.)
Charles Austen's case wasn't unique. There were a lot of widowers who wanted
to marry their sisters-in-law-- it was often she who came to care for her
nieces and nephews, and therefore was available.